The privacy of four people who decided to exchange partners regardless of the voices against them that have been heard since the 50s.
Being a swinger means having a stable partner and with an agreement to have sexual encounters with other couples. The number one rule of all ways of living sexuality is agreement between people. Swingers decide to share sexual moments with other couples, they are not orgies or threesomes, much less that one of the two has relations with another person other than the couple without their consent.
During the Cold War, a sexual game arose that consisted of soldiers traveling to military bases and having a female partner, leaving the keys to the hotel room inside a hat while the women waited in the room, those who participated, without seeing , they took out any key and the exchange of partners occurred.
Over time this practice was taken by hippie culture and converted into a more equitable exchange of partners, the man and the woman decided with whom to have sexual relations. At present there is not only one way to meet swinger couples, the most common way was in bars and clubs, now there are applications that allow you to search for other people who want the same thing.
There are bars, clubs, where stable couples decide to go to have a good time and there is an orgy between them all, but being a swinger is a couple with another couple. Between the four people they decide how it will be and where.
Ways for sexual relations:
Basic exchange: the man with the woman of the other couple and the woman with the man of the other couple, the man with the other man and the woman with the other woman.
Two decide to watch: two people have sex while the other two watch them.
With or without penetration: there does not necessarily have to be penetration for it to be an exchange, it can consist of giving or receiving only oral sex or only touching.
If you agree how and where, you agree on protection methods to avoid unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases. It is better to take care of yourself than to cure yourself, if there is a cure.
Another very important issue is to separate the sexual act from romantic emotions, no gifts or signs of tenderness, words of affection and no kisses because they are considered by some to be a unique sign as a couple, remember that they are stable couples.
They are still a couple
Swinging is a practice that can fuel sexuality between a couple, it cannot become the only way to have sex, it must continue the intimacy of the two people like any other couple. Romanticism, sexuality, trust between the couple must be the basis so that attraction and eroticism continue to be part of the two and that exchanging partners is a plus, adding to the relationship.
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